Seven passages at 6:00 in the morning, accompanied
by a fully drained coffee cup that followed a not so hot bath (why we have no
hot water at this unreasonable hour is beyond me), and a pretty serious
attitude problem. I am not a morning
person. I do not want to be awake right
now.
Seven passages of Scripture, many that I
have studied before, some that I have committed to memory, all that contain
important truths for life, and one little phrase jumping off the page and
smacking my lousy attitude in the face:
I
Peter 5:2, "... not because you must, but because you are willing..."
(NIV).
Well, fine.
If I may be candid for just a moment, there
are quite a few things I am doing, lately, because I must. And if there is
anything I hate more than someone telling me I can't do something, it's someone telling me I have to. For a long time, I
have been thinking that I need to kick this way of being, but...
Wait for it...
I was wrong.
One of the incredible ironies of my life is
that although I am fabulous at breaking rules, I am also a pretty consistent
rule follower. I know how to create
controversy, but I hate conflict. Crazy. I know.
Integrity matters to me a great deal, so chances are excellent that you
will find me doing what's right much more often than not. This is not a "yay me" moment. Hold on.
It's coming...
There have actually been quite a few moments,
lately, when I have found myself exclaiming, "I am so sick and tired of doing what's right!" And I have meant it. I am legitimately, and sometimes literally,
sick and tired of it. And that's my
problem.
I need to be willing.
Now, there are all kinds of directions I
could take this. For example, I am not
suggesting that if you're not willing to do the right thing, you should do the
wrong thing. I have tried this. Take it from me, it doesn't end well. In fact, it probably ends especially not well
if you are a compulsive "do the right thing" kind of person. You can try the whole do whatever you want
thing, but you will probably find yourself sitting at a fast food place,
sucking down fountain pop with a friend, and confessing, "I can't even sin right!"
This may or may not have happened to me.
No, don't go that route.
I am also not suggesting that you "fake
it until you make it". The sad
truth on this one is, you might fake it for a really long time and never make it. This just makes everyone miserable. I may also have personal experience with
this.
You know... funny thing... I'm not even
sure exactly what I am
suggesting. This may have something to
do with the fact that I am also still not awake and a second cup of coffee is
looking better every second.
But I think this is the thing. We (and by we, I mostly mean I, but you can
do this too, if you want) need to embrace the possibilities we have as opposed
to always wishing for the ones we don't have.
This doesn't mean we stop setting goals or accept whatever is without any sort of challenge or fire
in our eyes or give up on the future we hope for. But I think we miss out on a lot of
opportunities to be the people we were created to be, every day, if we are
constantly thinking about becoming someone else.
Let me be the first to admit that I am not
where I want to be, today. And yet, I am
where I am (that's a new one for everybody to hate). Profound.
Or not. Yeah, mostly not. I have some pretty huge dreams, and I am in
no way giving up, but there are certain things that simply cannot happen
today. And that's OK. And I would imagine I will be much happier if
I accept today for what it is and willingly make the most of it.
Psalm
25:9-10, "He guides the humble in what is right and teaches them his way. All the ways of the Lord are loving and faithful toward those
who keep the demands of his covenant" (NIV).
All the ways... even this one...
L.
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