In the midst of an
incredibly busy week at Q,
here's a guest post
from Grace Michaels.
This is the essay she
submitted for the discipleship scholarship,
which she was awarded
during the Wednesday night plenary session.
I am proud of her for
many reasons,
but mostly because
she loves so well.
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“Therefore, as God’s chosen
people, holy and dearly loved, clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness,
humility, gentleness and patience. Bear
with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against
someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave
you. And over all these virtues put on
love, which binds them all together in perfect unity.” –Colossians 3:12-14
Loving, forgiving, putting
on compassion and kindness and humility and gentleness and patience, has at
times been a struggle for me—perhaps especially so during Bible quizzing. Maybe that sounds awful, but even in such a
widespread community of quizzers and fellow Jesus disciples, there are going to
be people who aren’t your best of friends…people with whom you don’t get along
well…people who hurt you in a lot of ways.
Basically, it’s not all sunshine and rainbows. And it never will be.
I quizzed on a new district
this year, and it was one of the best things that has happened to me during the
course of my Bible quizzing career. I
get along with everyone on my district.
We’re all friends. None of us are
perfect, but we still love each other.
Loving, at the least loving the people on my district, has been pretty easy for me this quiz season. But that makes me stop and wonder: Am I only
striving to love when it’s easy? In that case I’m not obliged to strive that
much at all. There are still people who
aren’t easy to love—and maybe I’m not
really loving them yet. Maybe I’ve
pushed them off to the side now that they aren’t as close as they used to be,
and maybe I’m forgetting about them.
Maybe I’m dismissing them because they hurt me. Maybe I’ve made a choice in the back of my
mind not to love them and not to forgive them.
If as “God’s chosen people,
holy and dearly loved,” we are to clothe ourselves with “compassion, kindness,
humility, gentleness, and patience,” that means compassion for everyone,
kindness towards everyone, humility in every situation and no
matter who we are facing; gentleness towards everyone, patience with everyone. Everyone is a lot of people. Studying these three verses from Colossians
has reminded me that sometimes I don’t follow these instructions. I ignore the people I just don’t want to love
or spend my time on. I say they’re not
worth it. But the truth is…I’m not worth
it, either. Nobody is. But Jesus loves us anyway. Who am I to not love everyone in the same
way?
Sometimes it’s easy to say I’ll
show compassion, I’ll be kind and gentle, and I’ll even forgive and have
patience and humility, but I don’t want
to actually say that I will love—especially not my enemies. The thing is, though, that love binds all these virtues together in
perfect unity. The rest of this
doesn’t really matter without love, because love holds it all together. And saying I have all these other virtues but
not love is a false statement—because I can’t truly have anything else if love
is not present within me and I am not pouring it out, to anyone and
everyone. So I have chosen to “put off
my old self,” the self that wants to dismiss as unimportant the act of loving
those who hurt me. I want to do the most
loving thing in any and every situation. I want my whole life to be love, for love, and
lived in love. If I don’t love, I can’t forgive. I can’t clothe myself with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness
and patience. I can’t bear with and
forgive others if I have a grievance against someone. I have
to have love and live love—or I have nothing, and I literally am nothing at
all. Colossians 3:12-14 has been my
reminder of this throughout the quiz year, and I find that the more I put love
into practice, the easier it becomes; not because it is easy to love everyone,
but because love grows within me to the point where it is all that is flowing
from me.
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