This is twice recycled
material. I must think it's really
important. I first started writing this
post in 2007, and then I adapted it for a class I took at NNU some years
later. What makes it worth sharing again?
Well, one of the things I would like to do here is to bring some insight
and encouragement to young ministerial students and those just starting out in
ministry.
When
discussing a collaborative writing project, my friend Henry posed the question,
"What are the top 5 struggles that you have had in your ministry, for
which education did not prepare you?"
You know I like questions. This
was a great one!
Before
I dove right in with answers, though, there was one caveat. I think my education at NNU was, and is,
phenomenal in regard to preparing me for ministry and helping me to realize
that ministry is not what I once
thought it was. The problem with this is
that my education at NNU started a decade after
our family began full time, vocational ministry. There are some things you have to learn by
experience, but I think there are a lot of things that can be taught without
experiencing hurt over and over again, and it begins with expectations. Over the next few weeks, I'd like to explore
some of the expectations I had. For
today, I think this is a pretty good overview of the struggle that comes with
expectations that do not match reality:
We are not invincible. Our efforts will not save the world. We are not God. We are not even… wait for it… space rangers…
In the Pixar film, Toy Story 2
(1999), there is a scene where several of the toys are walking through Al's Toy
Barn, and Buzz stops and stands in awe at the Buzz Lightyear aisle. He notices
that the new Buzz Lightyear toys have an upgraded utility belt, so he climbs up
to the display model to get a better look. The display model comes
"alive" and, of course, he believes that he is the "real"
Buzz Lightyear, just as Buzz did in the previous Toy Story movie. The model attacks
the Buzz Lightyear that we all know and love and tries to shoot him with his
laser light bulb, while making claims about himself that are completely
ridiculous, since he is, after all, a toy. Buzz rolls his eyes and mutters,
"Tell me I wasn't this delusional".
And then we all laugh, because we know that he was…
I was startled by a comparison
between this scene in an animated flick and the lifestyle of ministers. Mostly, this thought came to me because I
used to be that delusional, too.
It seems that in the church, we are
often equipping ministers with new utility belts. Instead of focusing on spiritual formation
and the call that God has placed on our lives, we have become distracted by
business models that run our pastors and their families into the ground with no
hope of fostering transparency, and dare I say it, friendships. It is so much easier to set a cookie cutter
expectation, convince ourselves that the new belt is the real deal… standard
issue… we're "in", and if we wear it proudly, BAM! We're space rangers?
But I think there's something wrong
with the belt.
In Ephesians 6, we read about the
armor of God, and He issues us a belt, too. It's called the belt of truth. For
most of my life I have been a brutally honest person. In fact, people have, on
occasion, asked me not to be so
honest. I am not claiming to have a corner on truth, but God does, and in
replacing the tool that God has offered to us, we are losing something (maybe
even everything) that we were created to be.
And, I know it blows my parallel,
but this passage of Scripture is simplified in The Message:
"Be prepared. You're up against
far more than you can handle on your own. Take all the help you can get, every
weapon God has issued, so that when it's all over but the shouting you'll still
be on your feet. Truth, righteousness, peace, faith, and salvation are more
than words. Learn how to apply them. You'll need them throughout your life.
God's Word is an indispensable weapon. In the same way, prayer is essential in
this ongoing warfare. Pray hard and long. Pray for your brothers and sisters.
Keep your eyes open. Keep each other's spirits up so that no one falls behind
or drops out" (Eph 6:13-18, TM).
We don't need a new gimmick. We don't need to work harder or spend more hours
away from our families, at the office.
What we need is to take care of ourselves and to take care of one
another. We need community. This starts and ends with truth.
It has become increasingly clear to
me that pastors and their families are almost afraid to be authentic with other
people. Most often, this fear stems from
painful experiences in which we have been rejected or hurt by others who have
unrealistic expectations. We're not
super heroes. We're people. We need to honestly assess what we are
capable of doing, what God has made
us capable of doing, and then we should do that, wherever we are, in whatever
role we have. We can be nothing but
ourselves. We should be nothing but who we were created to be. And honestly,
I know that won't satisfy everyone, but that's OK.
I guess what I'm trying to say here
is that there's more to ministry than just looking the part. There's more to an
authentic relationship with Christ than just having the goods. And, may God
help us if we are attempting to fight Spiritual battles with blinking light
bulbs…
L.
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